And Suddenly I'm Free... Suddenly I'm Me...

I wish I could break it down into a simple equation. The day I woke up and realized that this was right, that this person wasn't supposed to be in my life. And I wish I could say that I wasn't exaggerating about it being just that one day (okay... maybe its a bit of an exaggeration), but after 7 months of inexplicable pain, one day I regained my spark... just like that. I feel like all of the stuff that I could write that helped me has been written in relationship blogs and advice columns time and time again. Unfortunately... until you're ready to accept what you're reading, you can't move on... and that's what I learned. I didn't "hear" anything different that one day than I did 7 months ago when the heartbreak began... but I heard everything differently when I was ready to face it.